Fellas... Choose WISELY!


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Published: 6 months ago

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Could you please do a vid on men not maintaining employment? Thank you in advance.

6 days ago

Watch out now with that "OG" LOL.... I'm about to be 55

2 weeks ago

👌👌👌👌👌

4 weeks ago

Thank you so much Derrick!!!!

4 weeks ago

Keep dropping them jewels...

1 month ago

Oh my gosh, I don't even know how much to love this video. I could say an 'Amen' to every thing that he is saying. You don't even know what your girl is capable of if she knows you're hers and hers alone.

1 month ago

love the way that you feel about it thanks you 100% true shits amen Derrick. Keep. Up. Withs. Your thought. Cool men..?

1 month ago

Nah theres some women that are jealous over nothing tho

1 month ago

Ladies what Derrick is saying is true.
But we have the power to either put up wit the BS or keep it moving.
I been in Longterm relationships before.
I don't care how much a nigga begs or pleads, once u cheat or try2 play me I'm Ghost 👻
I know my worth🙌
My Motto)
I'm 2Blessed 2Be Stressed😘

1 month ago

Tell 'em Derrick

2 months ago

Thank u exactly Derrick you are so right

2 months ago

Precisely!!!

2 months ago

PREACH BROTHER!

2 months ago

Men should water us like we produce fruit for life. If you don't water abs care and prune our prescious roots, we'll die and wither away...

2 months ago

Ijust feel in these situations it works both ways on his and her side or it just simply won't work at all. In a real relationship it's one single unit in sync not two working against each other.

2 months ago

Come on now. word.

2 months ago

True that, if they dont take me seriously, I DONT TAKE THEM SERIOUSLY AND SO KEEP DOING MY OWN THING

3 months ago

OMGoodness!!! 🤚🏽

3 months ago

Excellent!!!

3 months ago

I never comment but you are!! On point. "Loyalty" is an odd commodity these days... Even in marriages. Great video #teamjaxn

3 months ago

Umm,mm Lord, thank you Jesus!!!!! Umm.

3 months ago

So accurate!

3 months ago

OMG this is so true. I was having a conversation about this just yesterday saying the same things. I have yet to meet a man that has ever allowed me to be the woman I know I can be to a man. No man has ever tapped into the fullness of who I am in a relationship. Men do have that control and most boys I dated tended to want to bring out the mother side, cause they didn't know how to do shit, or most recently, the private investigator. This fool was too busy shuckin' and jivin' and peepin' and hidin' shit. So instead of opting to receive the best of me, he chose to see the worst. Needless to say I had him gather his belongings and I dismissed his ass. Derrick this is one of my favorite videos from you. Love the wisdom!
#TeamJaxn

3 months ago

Nice..

4 months ago

truth be a leader and serve her first and if she's a high value woman she will eventually come back and serve you while you still serving her and it will be her joy to do so. (okay maybe this is just me)

4 months ago

Yep! thank God for Jan.

4 months ago

U hit the nail on the head ... #choosewisely #♋

5 months ago

EXACTLY!!! OMG this was me with the last dude i was talking to. He always left me in the dark when i ask what are we. " we are not friends but we are not together". Yet he pretty much lived with me, talked to me everyday and would do couple stuff. Then when i had an incling about something i would have to go into private detective mode because every time i asked i was insecure. Yet my gut feeling was telling me something was wrong but i would ignore it. Smh. Luckily he walked off prob to be with someone else and i now regain my senses. I am teaching myself to be a Fuck boy detector.

5 months ago

Joyce Craig Lol. Prob not but they could be BFF's. Lol

3 months ago

Oddie Rivera
OMG, LOL -did we date the same person? This is exactly what I just went through. 🤔

3 months ago

this is my husband who is like this, they work together and i know something is going on because ladies you know if your man working with the the women and she don't say nothing to you seeing you for the first time that speaks volume and he allowed it to be like that i know better. She is still on his face book and etc. I cant take her of right now because of what work they are doing because it will not be adult like so i am preying to god for me not to go there it is hard though i will say this if she disrespect me this time around when i show up at the place i will pull her aside and speak to her, because your not going to converse with my husband and laugh with him and walk around me. I am a Grown women and these young women has no respect and don't worries his ass will be dealt with if he says anything. she is 23 and i know he is in joying the attention. Any time i bring it up he over talks me by the way he is 51 years old and black don't crack.

5 months ago

21 dislikes. Tutth hurts, huh?

5 months ago

I wish more men would be honest like him....I'm just tired of the deceitfulness ....

5 months ago

Boy oh boy I hope that these men are listening. There is nothing sexier and that makes a woman feel more secure and special than a man who isn't for anyone but his woman. The same way a man can put effort into making sure that he's looking good smelling good and has on the fliest gear, he can put in the same effort making sure that his lady is secure and just for him and him only. The saying really is true, "happy wife happy life". But if that life isn't wanted then please be kind enough to step aside because there are plenty of men out there that still want it

5 months ago

i DON'T want an Everybody man!!

5 months ago

this dude cool

5 months ago

If a man is acting like anything less than a king, then how does he expect his women to act.

5 months ago

u need 2 hmu...got a gig 4 u

6 months ago

You are too deep. Some Men talking about polygamy but don't know how to treat one woman.

6 months ago

4 1/2 year relationship ended cause of this he broke it off threw text wouldn't even come to my face . very thing said is what I said go in one ear out the other being over is ok .

6 months ago

You're so right.... how do you understand so much about women?? Seems like nobody else gets it😒

6 months ago

PREACH it for the people in the back 🗣 ! Accurate 💯 I should send this video to my ex 😭

6 months ago

You are so on point. It is game playing that causes the jealousy! Especially when he holds out on us for 3 years, and expects us to be perfect angels! There are lots of men waiting in line for an opportunity, to be with a real lady, not a skank.Why do men think it makes them look macho and manly to be with a skank anyone can have, anytime? Seriously! it makes them look like a wreckless sucker! There is nothing more unattractive!

6 months ago

Real talk!

6 months ago

I'm a female but you are so wise in how you explain things to males, i try and explain it in these ways but I'm a female so I probably won't sound as informative mostly nagging, I'm watching your video, they help with my anxiety thank you.

6 months ago

Gray Martin The reality is, some men don't listen by default simply because you are a woman. They will turn a genuine concern into nagging even if you are calm and well presented in your point of view. Those types you can't worry about since their minds are clearly already made up that you have no valid or logical view point/s.

6 months ago

I'd be surprised if one man actually watched this. The people that need to hear this probably won't.

6 months ago

That damn part I tried to do what's right but I'm not fighting his mama n him being a down right hoe too.. it hurts but falling bk is better

6 months ago

Well said

6 months ago

#Truth......So on Point!!

6 months ago

Thanks..,,but ,That's the problem!!!!Woman want equality.,! But always make it about one1 (her ) I'm tired of ppl saying "happy wife "" happy home " NO! If men don't stay in charge and be the man of the house ( as men ) "we lay bricks for foundation is how the top( woman) holds it together . If the foundation does not even out with the top (woman) it will loose its "key" and crumble.,! BE ON THE SAME PAGE! if not work it out for the kids .,!!!


Thanks everyone one just a personal opinion./

6 months ago

Wise words. Dope!

6 months ago

Absolutely on point! My husband & I say each others' actions reflect one another

6 months ago